there are a lot of gaining rules that kind of contradict themselves so we're gonna talk about a few of these roles and talk about you know what the appropriate allen's between me so one of them is never settle verses don't be too picky now what the advice here is if you don't want anyone i'd figure attracted to you're being too picky you know you don't want to just settle for somebody that the if you feel like you're not really into themselves i think one dead balances you needed decide like one of the issues you can compromise on and what can you compromise on because bill unfortunately nobody is gonna be perfect there are many somebody's going to have make little imperfections things that annoy you things that bother you need a seem to decide okay what is this something that's just a reminder and i can deal with and i can link learn to live with uh or maybe we can kind of talk about a workout or is this something that's a bad deal breaker and and i need to just you seem to cut it off in and try to go for someone else decay i definitely don't think that people should settle avoid i do think that people sometimes feeder pulled out for important important qualities in their mind or it would be want those qualities like like a particular physical appearance or particular sort of lifestyle and forget that like it's the whole person then you're dating and that one thing may seem attractive when you first see them in a sandwich active on the first state at some point you're going to see next each other the just any decision in the militia you made your watching tv and have to talk to this person and people find themselves in these bad relationships and they wonder like how did i get the situations because the problem in put much thought into highly uncertain yapping so like don't be too picky but picked for the right reasons i understand if you don't deal with this person you need to be able to talk to them the most important thing think about the nearly enough and sometimes it is a warning signs the beginning that you're more likely to ignore because it like all their love really attractive or like i really like that either thing but if they don't want any time in the beginning and it's you know that's something that like deep down here like i know i can't get over that does qatar lots of why you like cutting line flyer hadn't using the debate about a particular thing i'm actually not and that's not inclined i think that the okay let's just move on to become as if nothing suspicious come down uh price indexes you play hardball you make the first males now i'm curious to see what you guys perspective on this for a girl like would you rather have a girl play hard to get would rather have her show interest in you know alampi fit most guys are going to either immediately come out and say that they want the girl to show interest or at least they think that they want that uh
but while guys are a little bit less sensitive to this than women i think the in the long run why what the girl to express interest if she doesn't want a strong doesn't get turned off by that the same as girls after a couple of dates and after like two or three dates issues like wants to be with the every minute and she's expressing a one three and stuff like that back in for all any guy beauty was originally really interested in angry so then i said this has andy's you know you don't wanna be like to hear in in their face all the time in the coming back giving commune into our is inviting communist country ridiculous like that buffalo you come up with an interest in your try and play hard to get too much that i got might lose interest so i think that balances like something you're interested and then you gave the guide the opportunity to make his nails and that i think that's how kind of dating does it like the girl never you should really i don't throw yourself of the guy but just like create the opportunity and then the guy decides whether or not too late take that opportunity or the guy creates a situation that the girl feels she is in control of the mixed efforts avian but the guy really set it up casino dot is very noticable hahahaha using the dennis system so uh all we should point out by the way that is is the sort of obsolete are geared towards women it's coming from her campus dot com and if you're growing college it's a really good resource for all sorts of things not just a related but lifestyle related stunning related outperforming college associates of next line and don sleep with a guy and tell you bend exclusive for three months versus sleep with her date whenever it feels right now i think this this is based off of light whatever you're comfortable at with your own you nobody in your own sex life and i kind of stuff it also depends on what you want to give here just looking for a hard copy i'm missing are going away into the man exclusive for three months but we talked about this in some of the absolute nineteen ninety a lot if you are looking for a relationship putting up too soon can be detrimental to that because it becomes all about the physical and you don't actually develop a good ya motion elemental connection in the relationship than it had to put baby comes just physical and then you really miss out i think with obvious individuals of its great that you can really mess out on a lot of like the emotional connection and and that sort of aspect if you jump into the school stuff to quickly or the flip side the additional physical interaction we have gives you that sort of feeling of connection with the like that there's actual chemical onto that the people feel close to the people that they put up with uh and then back in hyd for short time the fact that you are in no way compatible that manufacturing you would find out later a satellite hella shit talking i did five months later an ailing what i've i've been doing that last five months of my life changes in the marriage hong kong
