15 Playful and Kinky Ideas for a More Creative Sex Life Sometimes, even for sex goddesses such as ourselves, banging the same person can get a little predictable When it comes to your sex life, or life in general, you don’t want to do the same thing all the time, so here are some new ideas that will ignite the fire between you and your beau
1 Take it to a mirror The next time youre mid-nookie with your man, whisper in his ear just how sexy he looks—and suggest you get an even better view Lead him to a mirror and lean yourself in front of it, allowing him to enter you from behind Youll get to watch him enjoy himself, and hell get a view of you from the back and front Its also fun to lean a mirror next to your bed, so you can watch as you get it on from different positions
2 Bubble bath time Nothing says ‘I love you’ like a nice sponge bath Let your partner relax and maybe offer a nice back massage Change up your scenery and let the art around you inspire you You can prepare by getting some scented candles, a nice smelling bubble bath and finding a good playlist
Make it a regular thing that you both look forward to and turn something that’s repetitive, like bathing, into something that brings you closer together 3 Be cold Ice cubes arent just for cooling your beverages If you want to give your partner a new kind of surprise, offer to pleasure him as he relaxes on the couch But before you go downtown, pop an ice cube in your mouth
Its the cheapest sex toy around, and will offer him thrilling—and chilling—sensations 4 Find pleasure in the fridge Make an ice cream sundae, but rather than top your vanilla confection with hot sauce or whipped cream, rub a dab on your lips or neck and ask him to lick it off As things heat up, paint some of your other erogenous zones with deliciousness hell lap up with pleasure 5
Tie him up with his own tie Maybe youve backed off the idea of bondage because buying handcuffs or other restraints is just too freaky for you But chances are he has something in his closet or around his neck that will work just fine Or, if you dig a more submissive role, whip one out and hand it to him, asking if hed like to tie you to the headboard and have his way with you Do you think any man would say no? 6
Go blind You can take that same tie and use it as a blindfold, shielding your partners eyes from your next moves, or taking away your own sight while he goes to town on your body When you block off one sense, your body intensifies its others His touch, or yours, will feel electric and surprising The key here is to refuse to let him know where youll touch him next, or to tell him to do the same to you Guessing where his hands or mouth will be next is part of the fun!
7 Spanking Both women and men can enjoy a bit of light spanking during sex and theres scientific proof why When youre turned on, your body releases endorphins that make stinging slaps feel really pleasurable – so, if youve not tried it, give it a go! 8 Think outside the bed Want to know why hotel sex is so good? Because youre shaking up your boring routine
Steam things up sans travel by moving outside the bedroom and doing it on top of a sturdy table, kitchen counter, bathroom sink, or hood of a car thats parked in your garage No public sex though, keep that shit legal 9 Talk dirty to him A you feel so good inside me, always works, but turn up the heat on your dirty talk by describing the sensations youre feeling, giving him directions, and telling him what you want to do to him before you do it You may find that whispering about how a touch feels or being forward with what you want enhances what youre experiencing in the moment
10 Love bites Giving or receiving a love bite can be really erotic when youre in the moment – the key is to make sure theyre not anywhere that you cant hide with clothing, or you might get some funny looks on the school run 11 Send a naked photo Sending a naked photo is a great way to get your other half excited about seeing you and itll build the anticipation for you, too But, if you are thinking of sending a racy photo then make sure its to someone you completely trust – and remember, you dont have to include your face for it to be effective
12 Be a sexual slave for the night Whether its you or your partner whos going to be the sexual slave for the night, youll have to do everything youre told for the whole time Make sure you set some boundaries before you get going so you dont end up doing something youre not comfortable with 13 Perform a striptease Perform a striptease for your partner – we bet hell think hes the luckiest man alive
If youre feeling self conscious about your body, dim the lights and remember hell be loving the fact that youre doing this for him and wont even notice any of your lumps and bumps 14 Wear nothing but heels in bed If you feel at your sexiest in a pair of heels then why take them off when you get in the bedroom? Keeping your heels on will make you look and feel great 15 Go on a dirty weekend away Dirty weekends need some thought
If you want to get down to having some seriously good, uninterrupted nookie while youre away, set some ground rules No TV, no phones and no shopping! Book yourselves into an indulgent hotel, lock the door and promise to dedicate the time entirely to each other
