How to ATTRACT WOMEN | ONLINE DATING | TOP 5 Do’s and Don’ts | Drew Dukes

Hi I'm Drew Dukes from Auxford a lifestyle company helping you build the lifestyle you want! (Music) today we're going to be talking about approaching women on social media and dating sites alright guys before we get started let's address the elephant in the room no d ick pics I can't even begin to tell you how bad of an idea that is it's not gonna get you what you want she's not gonna be interested just because she sees a picture of your d ick it's just not gonna flow that way the reason I wanted to make this video is because I've been getting a lot of horror stories from women being approached by guys online so in an effort to help the male species out there I'm giving you my top 5 do's and don'ts to help you approach women online number one compliment her you want to use words like pretty beautiful stunning and gorgeous you look at her profile picture and you're like OMG she's really really hot stop yourself right there guys do not write that instead you want to use things like you're pretty you look great check to see if she's wearing a t-shirt what style t-shirt it is you really want to pay attention to detail light-hearted humorous okay just gotta make sure it's not offensive so let's say you've posted those comments and she reacts positively to it well this can be a sign that she's into it and you may want to progress into privately messaging her from this point on now the thing with Facebook guys is a lot of women on there aren't really looking for a date because it's not a dating site so with social media you want to start off very slow that usually means engaging on their post and gradually progressing a privately in boxing dating sites is gonna be a little bit different you actually want to inbox her right away and you want to do so with a compliment your compliment needs to absolutely be tailored so that means paying great attention to detail to her actual profile what are her interests what are her likes what are her dislikes you want to tailor your compliment that way guys you don't want to be insulting or give out backhanded compliments oh you're such a good driver for a woman NOOO we don't want to do that that is absolutely terrible don't be disrespectful meaning we don't want to talk about her boobs we don't want talk about her butt we don't want to talk about her curves don't be basic no one likes a basic dude hi you look so pretty lol you're cute you're hot you're sexy or the worst how are you not only is it boring but she's probably heard it from 15 other dudes before you got to her number two we want to respect her boundaries if you find yourself getting a lot of nos that may be a sign your being too forward you may want to dial that back a little bit guys don't pressure her to send pictures of herself and don't send pictures of yourself unless she asks especially nudes and lastly don't be a pest no one likes a pest it's gross if she's not into you there's no need to insult her number three get to know her you want to ask open-ended questions questions that can't be dismissed with a single word reply an easy way to do this is to add the word why to your question instead of what is your favorite TV show what is your favorite TV show and WHY try to find mutual hobbies for instance if she likes to go fishing voila you love the go fishing congratulations honestly guys people love talking about themselves if you're asking the right open-ended questions it is the best way to keep her talking you don't want to talk about anything too personal things like religion money or politics if your intention is for a long-term relationship you want to completely avoid talking about sex for at least the first week or so do not hijack the conversation by just talking about yourself number four review your profile take a look at your recent post try to make sure you don't have anything that makes you look like a douche guys no sexually eager content you don't want to come off as a horndog remember as she gets interested in you the more she's gonna review your profile I'm gonna tell you a dating site is secret even if you are interested in a hookup you want to put that you're not you'll have way better luck with the ladies that way last but not least guys number five we have to give her enough room to make the next move she doesn't always need be the one to make the next move but at least give her that breathing room to do that this is really important before you ask her out to meet make sure there's a phone conversation she needs to be able to feel you out so she feels safe when she finally gets to meet you women are biologically wired to protect themselves they got to make sure that you're safe before you start approaching women on social media you need to understand what your intentions are are you looking for something real or you looking for casual hookups if you're only interested in hookups you want to make sure you let her know that you're interested in casual dating never use the word hookup ever alright guys that's all I have for you today be sure to hit that like button hit that 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